some days I’m the one who needs more patience, more softness, more understanding. other days, he’s the one who’s drained and I get to be the steady one. then there are seasons where we’re both stretched thin… and seasons where everything feels light and effortless. That’s what healthy love actually looks like, not two people who have it all together every day, but two people who are willing to show up through every shift, every mood, every hard day and every sweet one. It’s learning each other.